Hi Craig
Thanks for posting all this info!
I've been reading this thread with great interest as my 2004 Maserati Coupe CC has stopped selecting gear
I suspect my actuator is the culprit, however, I have removed my clutch to rule it out as a possible cause, on inspection the clutch pack appears to be fine, I measured the clutch disc that sits against the flywheel and it is 5.32mm, I have not measured the other disc yet. The SD2 clutch wear readout was 45%, my flywheel has some hotspots but nothing compared to yours.
I am thinking to machine the flywheel considering I have it apart, as well as possibly relining the clutch discs, based on your findings it would appear the disc thickness should be 6.3mm. I would like to also point out that my clutch appears to have been balanced as there are balancing weights and a drill mark on the clutch pack, I am some what concerned that machining the flywheel and relining the discs will throw the balance out, I would like to know you thoughts on this
Thanks
Vince