Well I was able to drive a bit more this weekend. I like these tires so far. The car is more stable it seems although it was halfway decent weather, not really nice yet. But it seems to not wander quite as much. Cornering is better. Ride probably isn't really much better, still turned on the dash cam with a couple more serious "bumps" in the road.
I dunno, there should be some happy medium. I'm not liking the tires being further in from the edge of the fenders without the spacers on. But if it drives and rides better I can deal with the appearance.
As for the TPMS, nothing. I held the relearn button for a long time, the icon on the dash never changed. I tried it many times and many different ways, quick push, long push...etc. So maybe my module is dead or maybe, since the tire place couldn't even get them to scan in, I got a bad batch? Seems highly unlikely that would happen. Or maybe I read the wrong post and ordered the wrong ones altogether. Who knows but not gonna worry too much about it.
Have a new center console top on the way then I'm gonna tear into that and the steering wheel to install the new stuff I have.